In 2013 we did our first trip with Jesse (5) and Olivia (3) taking them up to the Kgalagadi. Our campsite on the Khiding pan was beautiful with not another person in sight. We had put very strict rules in place for how far they could move from camp drawing a line in the sand as their boundary. They also had to be in view of an adult at all times, so no going behind cars. So Jess gets his spade and starts digging around a tree right next to the braai area. He played for hours there with Livi and our friends son Sven, with their dinky cars and dinosaurs. We thought it was great, being under a tree and in the shade but little did we know.
Later that night my husband took a pee against said tree and not five minutes later THE biggest, laziest and fattest puffadder you could imagine came out of the hole where the kids had being playing!!!!! I still shiver at the thought. Now the rules include no holes at the base of anything!
So here are a few things we now do with the kids camping in the bush:
- Take tape or rope to cordon off the boundary area for them. This is not to keep animals out but to give the kids an end point to the camp area. We just took that plastic traffic tape and would tie it from the car to a tree and back to the car. If no tree we stuck a stick in the ground. When their heads are down and they are involved in play it is amazing how quickly with distraction they can move and unintentionally too. If you don’t have rope or tape then draw a line where they can’t go beyond.
The Matopi Camp on the way to Nossob from Khiding. The grass was very high around us so we ‘fenced’ off the area for the kids, putting all vehicles in a half circle
- Check where the kids are playing and digging. In the story above we didn’t realize Jesse had started digging where there was already a hole.
- If you are bush camping with high grass, put all the vehicles in as much of a half circle and then the chairs on the other half of the circle and then the kids to play inside of this space.
Jesse, Olivia and Sven playing at Matopi. You had to worry about spraining your ankle with all the holes and trenches they dug
My son Jesse has two passions which come with us everywhere. First is the infamous DoggyDogg. He has had it since birth and if you picture Calvin&Hobbes…that is Jesse and DoggyDogg! We have had near bloodshed in our house when my husband and Jess went for a walk and came back without DoggyDogg (he was found a day later sleeping with a homeless couple)! And do you think we can find a second one as backup? The internet has been searched high and low across continents. Come hell or high water, he will not be left behind either. This is because he needs to come along on adventures, according to my son, much to the chagrin and trepidation from my husband and I.
Secondly are his dinosaurs. We have lost many a dinosaur which has been left hunting in a sand dune or digging in a desert. Last weekend we had to kayak back to shore from our sail boat as Jess had suddenly realized that he had left his prize dinosaur along with 5 others on shore, even though we had told him repeatedly to pack up (or rather not take them at all).
A dinosaur crosses the Gamkab Canyon in Namibia
I am a big one for taking responsibility for your actions and learning from the consequences, but when your child is literally ugly crying from the loss and you are able to maybe send out a rescue and retrieval then I am sure I am not alone in attempting a harmonious reconciliation. Obviously only if it is within my capabilities, hoping that he (or rather us) will learn from this and not do it again….till the next time.
So it is all very good and well to go search for the toys down the road from our house or at a friends place, but when you are moving everyday on your holiday covering vast distances the options of going back aren’t really possible. So we have tried to make our lives easier by doing the following:
Tammy’s Top Tips for Toys:
- Each child has a small bag that all their toys for the holiday have to fit into. They have to be able to carry this easily. Those fancy caricature wheelie bags are all very good and well in airports and hotels but not in sand and bush. They also aren’t easy to open and close in the car and store at their feet. Our kids have a small shoulder bag each which is light and soft and zips closed.
- When playing, the bag goes along to the spot so that everything can be quickly put back into it when done. No carrying individual toys from A to B!
- Only take a few items of one sort Ie: we limit Jesse’s dinosaurs to around 5 as he can count them and keep track.
- Try to not have toys which have 5million gazillion pieces…..they will get lost. They also take forever to pack up when tipped out of the bag.
- Beloved sleep toys remain in the trailer/tent/boat and don’t get moved from car to sleep place and back daily as it will invariably get left somewhere en route
- Also, nothing that can get sand in it! This is because the kids will take them out in the car after playing, and it is really hard to valet your car in the middle of nowhere!
- NO LEGO!!!!!!
Kids do not need to take a lot. I find it amazing how many times we have taken things along but only a few ever really got played with. They will make do with what they have where they are and imagination is a wonderful thing when left to bloom.
“Logic will get you from A to B. Imagination will take you Everywhere”
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